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<blockquote data-quote="KoG KodaK XS" data-source="post: 807898" data-attributes="member: 102350"><p>TOGETHER WE PULL THE ROPE.</p><p></p><p><u>Leadership 101</u></p><p><u></u></p><p><u>Lead:</u></p><p>Be the Leader your members deserve.</p><p>Pave the way to success</p><p>Empower your leaders to be free thinkers, and not merely a yes man</p><p><u>Guide:</u></p><p>Be the leader who is always willing to offer an outside perspective without interference.</p><p>Never micromanage</p><p>Offer assistance whenever the chance arises</p><p><u>Direct:</u></p><p>Train your members to manage everyday operations so they can be successful.</p><p>Seek out those teachable moments</p><p><u>Motivate</u><strong><u>:</u></strong></p><p>Set long & short term Reachable goals</p><p>Follow up when extra support is required</p><p>give praise for a job well done</p><p><u>Inspire:</u></p><p>Impel others to be the best they can be by displaying confidence at all times</p><p>Maintain morale by presenting even difficult information with a positive spin.</p><p>Encourage others to be the leaders of tomorrow</p><p><u>Have Fun:</u></p><p>Be the facilitator of fun</p><p>Create an environment in which members want to be a part.</p><p></p><p><strong>You'll Get out of this community what you put into it.</strong></p><p><strong>please share this with your leadership pipeline.</strong></p><p></p><p><u>DRAMA:</u></p><p>Unfortunately, drama can rear it's ugly head at any given time crossing many forms of communication, it's up to us as leaders to know how to deal with it.</p><p>Drama is a tumour that needs to first be isolated, then cut out before it becomes destructive, we as leaders need to be vigilantly on guard for the dumb shit. then squash it quickly and accordingly. if you need assistance in formulating a plan to combat a situation you can rely on your leadership for advice.</p><p></p><p><u><strong>Here are a few tips for shutting down the drama</strong></u></p><p></p><p>Try to determine what's behind the drama.</p><p>Get the facts.</p><p>Ask them to find a solution.</p><p>Set boundaries. ...</p><p>Walk away. if needed</p><p>Seek out peers for advice</p><p>Don't become a drama seeker yourself</p><p><strong>Stay neutral, logical, and unemotional. In other words, don’t react.</strong></p><p></p><p><u><strong>Here are a few tips on how to maintain a Drama free environment.</strong></u></p><p></p><p>Model the behaviour you want to see.</p><p>Have a system for managing conflict.</p><p>Be as transparent as possible.</p><p>Stop repeating the story.</p><p>Hold open conversations about real issues.</p><p>Encourage people to carry their own messages.</p><p>Try to understand people's motivations.</p><p></p><p>Getting people involved, emotional, and excited is the goal of drama-seekers. And the more, the merrier.</p><p><strong>Remember NEVER feed into the drama.</strong></p><h3></h3><h3><u>What is conflict resolution? </u></h3><h3>Conflict resolution is a way for opposing parties to find a peaceful solution to their disagreement that leaves all parties reasonably satisfied.</h3><p>conflict resolution can be done formally or informally., effective conflict resolution skills can serve to reduce any discontent that could damage working relationships, facilitate better collaboration, and, as a result, construct strong working relationships.</p><p>Resolving conflicts effectively can prevent tension between disagreeing parties from spreading to other members not involved in the original conflict. A quick, amicable resolution can help maintain peace and morale. Knowing your audience will play a key role in solving conflict.</p><p></p><p><strong>4 steps To resolve Conflict: CARE</strong></p><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Communicate. Open communication is key in a dispute.</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Actively Listen. Listen to what the other person has to say, without interrupting.</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Review Options. Talk over the options, looking for solutions that benefit everyone.</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">End with a Win-Win Solution</li> </ul><p><strong>Here are seven-steps for an effective problem-solving process.</strong></p><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Identify the issues.</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Understand everyone's interests.</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">List the possible solutions (options)</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Evaluate the options.</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Select an option or options.</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Document the agreement(s).</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Agree on contingencies, monitoring, and evaluation.</li> </ul><p><strong><u>Favouritism</u></strong></p><p>Favouritism is not something we do in the community, regardless of who you think you know, or what type of relationship you have with a person it will never give you any type of clout over anything. We believe in fair treatment for all.</p><p></p><p><strong><u>Leadership classes:</u></strong></p><p>Captains classes</p><h3><a href="https://www.xiledgaming.com/threads/captains-class-monday-02-07-22-at-9-est.99636/" target="_blank">Captains Class Monday 02/07/22 at 9 EST</a></h3><p>SYN CHELL XS will be hosting a Captains Class on Monday 02/07/22 at 9 est This class is highly encouraged for those who intend to move up the ranks. It is open to any member holding the current rank of Captain in all divisions with XG. This class will hold 10 spots. Members will be invited...</p><p><img src="https://www.xiledgaming.com/styles/rekt/images/favicon.ico" alt="www.xiledgaming.com" class="fr-fic fr-dii fr-draggable " style="" /></p><p><a href="http://www.xiledgaming.com/" target="_blank">www.xiledgaming.com</a></p><h3><a href="https://www.xiledgaming.com/threads/captains-class-monday-february-14-at-9pm-est-on-xbox.99641/" target="_blank">Captains Class Monday February 14 at 9PM EST on XBox</a></h3><p>KoG Drif XS will be hosting a Captains Class on Monday 02/14/22 at 9 est This class is highly encouraged for those who intend to move up the ranks. It is open to any member holding the current rank of Captain in all divisions with XG. This class will hold 10 spots. Members will be invited in...</p><p><img src="https://www.xiledgaming.com/styles/rekt/images/favicon.ico" alt="www.xiledgaming.com" class="fr-fic fr-dii fr-draggable " style="" /></p><p><a href="http://www.xiledgaming.com/" target="_blank">www.xiledgaming.com</a></p><h3><a href="https://www.xiledgaming.com/threads/captains-class-thursday-02-17-22-at-9-est-xbox.99637/" target="_blank">Captains Class Thursday 02/17/22 at 9 EST (XBOX)</a></h3><p>SYN CHELL XS will be hosting a Captains Class on Thursday 02/17/22 at 9 est This class is highly encouraged for those who intend to move up the ranks. It is open to any member holding the current rank of Captain in all divisions with XG. This class will hold 10 spots. Members will be invited...</p><p><img src="https://www.xiledgaming.com/styles/rekt/images/favicon.ico" alt="www.xiledgaming.com" class="fr-fic fr-dii fr-draggable " style="" /></p><p><a href="http://www.xiledgaming.com/" target="_blank">www.xiledgaming.com</a></p><p></p><p><em><u>The Events Team:</u></em></p><p></p><p>The Events Team Presents</p><p>Among Us game night on Wednesday, 2/9/22</p><p>With your hosts OkayKaite1 and SYN CHELL XS.</p><p>We will be playing among us!</p><p>Send a message to either host for an invite to the event!</p><p></p><p>The Events Team Presents</p><p>Monopoly Game Night</p><p>Wednesday, February 9th @ 10pm EST</p><p>With your hosts KoG Miist and SYN LEX XS</p><p>We will be playing Basic Monopoly.</p><p>Send a message to either host for an invite to the event!</p><p></p><p>The Events Team Presents</p><p><em><strong>February </strong></em><strong><em>Frenzy</em></strong></p><p>Saturday 02/12/22 at 9:00 EST</p><p>Modern Warfare: OkKatie1 and XGC Grimrepr</p><p>Cold War: XGC Mango and SYN ransom</p><p>Among Us: SYN LEX XS and SYN Sobi</p><p>Monopoly: SYN CHELL XS</p><p>Vanguard: StaleDonuts</p><p>Send a message to either host for an invite to the event!</p><p></p><p>The Events Team Presents</p><p>Vanguard Game Night</p><p>Friday 02/18/22 at 9:00 EST</p><p>With your hosts SYN CHELL XS and XGC TripTrip</p><p>Send a message to either host for an invite to the event!</p><p></p><p><em><u>Xiled Gaming Presents Community Game Night</u></em></p><p><strong><em>Featuring XGC Mini Me XD,</em></strong></p><p>Game will be held on COD Warzone Saturday, February 19th at 9EST,</p><p>with Special host XGC Mini Me XD.</p><p>This will be streamed by XGC xTFLEMx XI!</p><p>Prizes will be handed out with games going on during this event.</p><p>Feel free to send a message to either SYN CHELL XS or XGC MINI ME XD for an invite to the event or jump in our party and ask away any questions you would like.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="KoG KodaK XS, post: 807898, member: 102350"] TOGETHER WE PULL THE ROPE. [U]Leadership 101 Lead:[/U] Be the Leader your members deserve. Pave the way to success Empower your leaders to be free thinkers, and not merely a yes man [U]Guide:[/U] Be the leader who is always willing to offer an outside perspective without interference. Never micromanage Offer assistance whenever the chance arises [U]Direct:[/U] Train your members to manage everyday operations so they can be successful. Seek out those teachable moments [U]Motivate[/U][B][U]:[/U][/B] Set long & short term Reachable goals Follow up when extra support is required give praise for a job well done [U]Inspire:[/U] Impel others to be the best they can be by displaying confidence at all times Maintain morale by presenting even difficult information with a positive spin. Encourage others to be the leaders of tomorrow [U]Have Fun:[/U] Be the facilitator of fun Create an environment in which members want to be a part. [B]You'll Get out of this community what you put into it. please share this with your leadership pipeline.[/B] [U]DRAMA:[/U] Unfortunately, drama can rear it's ugly head at any given time crossing many forms of communication, it's up to us as leaders to know how to deal with it. Drama is a tumour that needs to first be isolated, then cut out before it becomes destructive, we as leaders need to be vigilantly on guard for the dumb shit. then squash it quickly and accordingly. if you need assistance in formulating a plan to combat a situation you can rely on your leadership for advice. [U][B]Here are a few tips for shutting down the drama[/B][/U] Try to determine what's behind the drama. Get the facts. Ask them to find a solution. Set boundaries. ... Walk away. if needed Seek out peers for advice Don't become a drama seeker yourself [B]Stay neutral, logical, and unemotional. In other words, don’t react.[/B] [U][B]Here are a few tips on how to maintain a Drama free environment.[/B][/U] Model the behaviour you want to see. Have a system for managing conflict. Be as transparent as possible. Stop repeating the story. Hold open conversations about real issues. Encourage people to carry their own messages. Try to understand people's motivations. Getting people involved, emotional, and excited is the goal of drama-seekers. And the more, the merrier. [B]Remember NEVER feed into the drama.[/B] [HEADING=2][/HEADING] [HEADING=2][U]What is conflict resolution? [/U][/HEADING] [HEADING=2]Conflict resolution is a way for opposing parties to find a peaceful solution to their disagreement that leaves all parties reasonably satisfied.[/HEADING] conflict resolution can be done formally or informally., effective conflict resolution skills can serve to reduce any discontent that could damage working relationships, facilitate better collaboration, and, as a result, construct strong working relationships. Resolving conflicts effectively can prevent tension between disagreeing parties from spreading to other members not involved in the original conflict. A quick, amicable resolution can help maintain peace and morale. Knowing your audience will play a key role in solving conflict. [B]4 steps To resolve Conflict: CARE[/B] [LIST] [*]Communicate. Open communication is key in a dispute. [*]Actively Listen. Listen to what the other person has to say, without interrupting. [*]Review Options. Talk over the options, looking for solutions that benefit everyone. [*]End with a Win-Win Solution [/LIST] [B]Here are seven-steps for an effective problem-solving process.[/B] [LIST] [*]Identify the issues. [*]Understand everyone's interests. [*]List the possible solutions (options) [*]Evaluate the options. [*]Select an option or options. [*]Document the agreement(s). [*]Agree on contingencies, monitoring, and evaluation. [/LIST] [B][U]Favouritism[/U][/B] Favouritism is not something we do in the community, regardless of who you think you know, or what type of relationship you have with a person it will never give you any type of clout over anything. We believe in fair treatment for all. [B][U]Leadership classes:[/U][/B] Captains classes [HEADING=2][URL='https://www.xiledgaming.com/threads/captains-class-monday-02-07-22-at-9-est.99636/']Captains Class Monday 02/07/22 at 9 EST[/URL][/HEADING] SYN CHELL XS will be hosting a Captains Class on Monday 02/07/22 at 9 est This class is highly encouraged for those who intend to move up the ranks. It is open to any member holding the current rank of Captain in all divisions with XG. This class will hold 10 spots. Members will be invited... [IMG alt="www.xiledgaming.com"]https://www.xiledgaming.com/styles/rekt/images/favicon.ico[/IMG] [URL='http://www.xiledgaming.com/']www.xiledgaming.com[/URL] [HEADING=2][URL='https://www.xiledgaming.com/threads/captains-class-monday-february-14-at-9pm-est-on-xbox.99641/']Captains Class Monday February 14 at 9PM EST on XBox[/URL][/HEADING] KoG Drif XS will be hosting a Captains Class on Monday 02/14/22 at 9 est This class is highly encouraged for those who intend to move up the ranks. It is open to any member holding the current rank of Captain in all divisions with XG. This class will hold 10 spots. Members will be invited in... [IMG alt="www.xiledgaming.com"]https://www.xiledgaming.com/styles/rekt/images/favicon.ico[/IMG] [URL='http://www.xiledgaming.com/']www.xiledgaming.com[/URL] [HEADING=2][URL='https://www.xiledgaming.com/threads/captains-class-thursday-02-17-22-at-9-est-xbox.99637/']Captains Class Thursday 02/17/22 at 9 EST (XBOX)[/URL][/HEADING] SYN CHELL XS will be hosting a Captains Class on Thursday 02/17/22 at 9 est This class is highly encouraged for those who intend to move up the ranks. It is open to any member holding the current rank of Captain in all divisions with XG. This class will hold 10 spots. Members will be invited... [IMG alt="www.xiledgaming.com"]https://www.xiledgaming.com/styles/rekt/images/favicon.ico[/IMG] [URL='http://www.xiledgaming.com/']www.xiledgaming.com[/URL] [I][U]The Events Team:[/U][/I] The Events Team Presents Among Us game night on Wednesday, 2/9/22 With your hosts OkayKaite1 and SYN CHELL XS. We will be playing among us! Send a message to either host for an invite to the event! The Events Team Presents Monopoly Game Night Wednesday, February 9th @ 10pm EST With your hosts KoG Miist and SYN LEX XS We will be playing Basic Monopoly. Send a message to either host for an invite to the event! The Events Team Presents [I][B]February [/B][/I][B][I]Frenzy[/I][/B] Saturday 02/12/22 at 9:00 EST Modern Warfare: OkKatie1 and XGC Grimrepr Cold War: XGC Mango and SYN ransom Among Us: SYN LEX XS and SYN Sobi Monopoly: SYN CHELL XS Vanguard: StaleDonuts Send a message to either host for an invite to the event! The Events Team Presents Vanguard Game Night Friday 02/18/22 at 9:00 EST With your hosts SYN CHELL XS and XGC TripTrip Send a message to either host for an invite to the event! [I][U]Xiled Gaming Presents Community Game Night[/U][/I] [B][I]Featuring XGC Mini Me XD,[/I][/B] Game will be held on COD Warzone Saturday, February 19th at 9EST, with Special host XGC Mini Me XD. This will be streamed by XGC xTFLEMx XI! Prizes will be handed out with games going on during this event. Feel free to send a message to either SYN CHELL XS or XGC MINI ME XD for an invite to the event or jump in our party and ask away any questions you would like. [/QUOTE]
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