DEALING WITH A BREAK UP AFTER 3 YRS TOGETHER

[XGC Knightehulk]

i am tryin to cope with the fact that my gf and i have broken up after 3 yrs of being together. i am needing advice on wat to do. i am currenlty unemployed ,as are most of the country, i am tryin to find things to do to keep my mind off of the issue at hand. does anyone have anything they can offer to me to help with this issue i am having?? anything is greatly appreciated.



Thank you very much,


XGC KnighteHulk

 

[SYN xARMYx]

I'm not sure if I can help make things better but I have been in the same situation. Send me a message any time i can at least give you someone to talk to who knows what its like.

 

[SiLeNt HuNtReSs]

Oh I'm sorry to hear that..3 years is a long time. It may hurt for awhile, but over time you will move on. Let's see well right now you need people around you so go out with your mates. Having friends around can keep your mind off it. If you can, also see your family to. Or you can pick up a hobby to do in your spare time.

I hope everything goes well for you from here.

 

[XGC Knightehulk]

i am currently living back at my parents place for now and it is really hard to go out and do anything when u dont have a car lol i am tryin to find things to do to keep my mind at ease and not think of the past but it is so hard when we have lived together for the entire relationship. :'(

 

[SiLeNt HuNtReSs]

Oh that does suck. There's not much you can say to someone in this situation to be quite honest. Just try to surround yourself around a lot of people. Being alone will make you think about it more. I know your a guy and guys don't make a habit of letting their feelings show like women, but talk to someone about it that always helps

 

[Miss Bunny]

I've been there too =( Trying to stay busy to keep your mind off of things, while not being able to spend money...it's a tough place to be hun. All I can suggest is finding hobbies. Paint, draw, listen to music (though be careful not to let it drag you down), watch funny movies (even if you don't feel like laughing), go to the park or the beach if you live near water... or play games =) Nothing is gonna sound like much fun when you're feeling like poo, but it doesn't mean it's not good for you.

You have access to a TON of people right here who would probably be more than willing to play, so hit us up! =)

 

[XGC Knightehulk]

i appreciate all the support from you guys it has helped alot i will try to add you guys on xbox lol and possibly game with you all

 

[samhoody]

bro i went threw a harsh break up in feb , and i played the **** out of MW2 and it helps , plus hit the gym it helps get ya mind off the stress and keep trying to find a job . the day you give up on finding one is the day you lose your chance of getting on " samhoody "

 

[XGC Amun Ra]

the main thing is one, making sure that if you starting thinking back on the relationship, only remember the good times and don't let those times make you miss it. yea it sucks i know. the girl i was with for 2.5 years i broke it off with and i have to see and talk to her everyday :/ there isn't much anyone can really say without knowing the entire set of emotions and the entire story. i always have an ear if you need someone to listen man. hit me up and i hope everything gets better.

P.S. Go job hunting or hit up them gym. Gym helps you clear your head.

 

[XGC Coleslaw XI]

yeah surround yourself with friends both online or offline, but make sure to hang out with some hometown friends

 

[SYN_BLUEDOG]

Ill straight up tell you that all of my buddies in Devastation helped me get through my divorce. Not all of them knew about me being divorced but they helped all the same. Alot of my so called "real life friends abandonded me not to mention the fact that I Felt worthless and didnt deserve friends. I am almost 20 years older than all of them but they still accepterd me and have become great friends. oh yea and God, he helped alot.

 

[Adeodato]

what helped me most was to get out of the house and be around my friends alot. that will keep it off your mind and sooner or later you will start to think how better off you are

 

[I WONA BURRITO]

If you do the gym .........

Don't do stupid weights ( aka weights you can do just cuz your pissed )